REFLECTIONS
on life, therapy, and being human
The Child Within Is Still Talking: Reparenting Childhood Wounds
When it comes to childhood wounds, we often believe the answer is to simply “get over it.” And yet the wounded parts of us continue to protest and demand our attention. How loudly they speak often depends on how long they have gone unheard.
Putting Down the Bullhorn: Motivational Interviewing for Parents
It’s hard not to reach for the bullhorn when you’re scared for your kid. But most of the time, that’s not what they need.
I’ll Do It When I’m Good and Ready: Honoring the Stages of Change
We tend to resist change until not changing becomes harder than changing. A reflection on the stages of change and why readiness matters.
How Two Burritos and One Pint of Ice Cream Hold a Marriage Together
Sometimes what holds a marriage together isn’t deep processing or perfectly timed communication, but a boring, predictable ritual that says: we’re still here.
Growth Through Self-Compassion (No Drill Sergeant Required)
Growth doesn’t require an internal drill sergeant. Lasting change grows out of kindness, connection, and clarity.
Reflection on Reflection
A reflection on how slowing down and really hearing someone can change everything in therapy, in parenting, and in everyday life.
The Season of Gratitude, or, How a Dry Carrot Can Help You Get Through Thanksgiving Break
A therapist’s reflection on gratitude, depression, and anxiety and how practicing gratitude, even when you don’t feel it, can improve mental health and relationships.

